Putting it Out There

My massage therapist is truly my "therapist." When I told him I thought I was ready for a relationship he asked me if I knew what I wanted in a man. Well of course I did. Then he replied in his Shaolin Master Voice (which he often does when he is proclaiming words of wisdom) "Remember, what you ask for will not appear in the package you expect."
Scary thought. I'll just go for the package then.
"So how do I go about finding him?" I asked
Again in his Shaolin Master's Voice he said, "Just put it out there."

Honey, I've been putting it out there for years!

I thought back to my goal setting years where I had listed in detail what I wanted in a man in quite a bit of detail. Tony Robbins said that is what he did to find his now ex-wife.

All I know is that at this point in my life I still want something more than a reason to use the carpool lane.